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Her Point/His Point
Wisdom, passion and following dreams
Apr 19, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
DAWN BRANDVOLD-GRAY Children’s author Maurice Sendak said, “I wish you all good things. Live your life, live your life, live your life.” And that is the thought that keeps running through my h...
Good, talented, beautiful or smart?
Apr 06, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 3 3 recommendations | email to a friend
DAWN BRANDVOLD-GRAY The question was first posed by Anne Shirley, beloved heroine of Lucy Maud Montgomery’s Anne of Green Gables series. Anne asked Matthew Cuthbert if he would rather be “di...
News, emotion and the selection of Pope Francis
Mar 24, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
MARK GRAY Scientists are researching the idea that women approach religion more emotionally than do men. This concept is similar to how my wife and I viewed last week’s election of the new Ro...
Time-wasting and reconnecting on Facebook
by MARK GRAY
Mar 11, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
Men are not immune from wasting time; after all, ESPN was built on the idea that males are inclined (while reclining) to munch on potato chips and watch a string of meaningless college basketball ...
Time-wasting and reconnecting on Facebook
by DAWN BRANDVOLD-GRAY
Mar 10, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
My children were the “gateway drug” to my presence on Facebook. They would tell me to look at this or that on Facebook. Finally I caved in and signed up. I wouldn’t call it an addiction, but isn’t...
Best books of the year for men, women
by DAWN BRANDVOLD-GRAY
Feb 11, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
Helen Keller said it best: “Lit erature is my Utopia.”  I read 61 books in 2012. That’s not a record. I went for quality, not quantity this year. That’s not to say I didn’t read some less-than...
Best books of the year for men, women
by MARK GRAY
Feb 11, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 4 4 recommendations | email to a friend
I n 2012, I read only 37 books. I say “only” because my wife is a more voracious reader than I. She should have a plaque in her honor at the local Barnes and Noble. If there’s one major differ...
Tidying up: Mr. Clean vs. Capt. America
by MARK GRAY
Jan 27, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
B ritish Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher told a magazine interviewer, “If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.” My wife would probably agree with Thatc...
Tidying up: Mr. Clean vs. Capt. America
Jan 27, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
I am an action figure. If something needs to be done, do it. If the band-aid needs to come off, quick is best. I think most moms are the same way. We know that if we don’t pick up as we go, the pi...
Cleaning house: Is it flotsam or a faithful companion?
Jan 14, 2013 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
At the start of every new year, my wife and I face the annual goal of cleaning up our home (or as my wife says, “de-junking”). This is a common chore for most couples, and I suspect more than a fe...
Gifts, lights and last-minute shopping
by MARK GRAY
Dec 29, 2012 | 0 0 comments | 3 3 recommendations | email to a friend
My wife appreciates the Christmas season more than I do, but she bristles at the unthinking, slavish, and desperate attempts at gift giving, the purchase of anything (often at the last moment) to ...
Birthdays, celebration and the importance of presents
Dec 14, 2012 | 0 0 comments | 3 3 recommendations | email to a friend
I have no scientific study to back it up, but it appears to me that women place more emphasis on holidays and special occasions than men. (Who places the assorted spring/summer/fall/winter wreaths...
The Marriage Wars: Spots, superstition and wierd routines
Nov 14, 2012 | 0 0 comments | 1 1 recommendations | email to a friend
By DAWN BRANDVOLD-GRAY I’ m not afraid of black cats, my favorite number is 13, and if it looks stable I’ll walk under a ladder without a thought. I like to think of myself as practicing “pro-...
The Marriage Wars: Men, women and their cars
Nov 02, 2012 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
By DAWN BRANDVOLD-GRAY I come from a strong tradition of car lovers. My dad lovingly cared for the family auto, inhaled new car scent like it was his job, and even enjoyed the maddening rituals ...
The marriage wars: In sickness and in health
Oct 03, 2012 | 0 0 comments | 1 1 recommendations | email to a friend
By MARK GRAY Clipper Columnist Until last week, I had been successful in avoiding the hospital surgery room.  The idea that I should pay a mere mortal (even if he is a surgeon) to start cutti...
Election time blues
Oct 01, 2012 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
By MARK GRAY Not everyone enjoys election years, but I do. I view political campaigns as a cat-and-mouse game, with politicians using polls and focus groups and emotionally-based messaging to cro...
Slow down process to find new state education chief
Sep 20, 2012 | 0 0 comments | 4 4 recommendations | email to a friend
Like my colleagues, I am also curious as to why the State Board of Education feels such urgency in filling the vacant seat of Utah’s State Superintendent (Larry Shumway, who is retiring). It seems...
Compassion or assuming weakness?
by MARK GRAY & DAWN BRANDVOLD-GRAY
Apr 07, 2012 | 0 0 comments | 4 4 recommendations | email to a friend
MARK: The women at our dinner party were all in agreement. Women, they say, are short-changed by their husbands. “Sometimes we want to feel weak and receive some cuddling care and sympathy,” they ...
The Marriage Wars: Do New Year’s resolutions even work?
Jan 08, 2012 | 0 0 comments | 2 2 recommendations | email to a friend
Dawn: My resolution this year is to stop making fun of people who consistently make futile New Year’s resolutions – and like most resolutions, I’m already breaking it. The best example of resolutio...
  • The Marriage Wars: Do parents need strangers’ help?
    by Mark Gray and Dawn Brandvold
    09.24.11 - 11:50 am


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